Most couples want their closest and best friends in their wedding party. But what if that group includes people who are shy or hesitant to be photographed? You can still get great photos by following a few key tips. 

1. Hire a Professional

Professional wedding photographers have worked with all types of people and their personalities. They bring not only skills and training but also the right equipment and even props to get the best out of everyone. They can do what amateur photographers cannot. 

2. Take Group Pictures

If a shy person doesn't enjoy or do well during individual photo sessions, it's okay to focus more on groups. Group photos can be much less intimidating for shy subjects, as it takes the focus off them. It's even okay to bury them in the back if they are very self-conscious. If you really want one-on-one photos, have the photographer take them when the person seems at their most relaxed. 

3. Lighten the Mood

Natural smiles and relaxed behavior are hard to achieve when people feel uncomfortable or anxious. As the bride or groom, you set the tone for your wedding party. Help them relax by creating a fun, comfortable environment. Remember, you are all here to celebrate love and friendship. So enjoy this time with everyone. When you don't expect perfection, your wedding party won't worry about reaching it. 

4. Take Informal Pictures

Another way to relax everyone is to veer away from formal, posed wedding pictures and toward informal or even unplanned ones. Go outside, move around, handle some props, let people talk, and tell jokes. This gets shy attendants' minds off their worries. And your photographer may even be able to catch great pictures while people are unaware. 

5. Have Them Meet the Photographer

It's always a good idea for brides or grooms to talk with the photographer about their own concerns, goals, and appearance issues so the photographer can capture the best from their day. Do the same for your shy friends. Ask the photographer to speak with them directly and discreetly about what they dislike about pictures. Then, the photo professional can help alleviate worries by capturing them the way they want. 

Where to Start

The best place to begin managing all the quirks and worries of your wedding party is to meet with a professional photographer. Their experience, tools, and personal skills can work wonders on even the most camera-shy individuals.

Talk with a professional wedding photographer in your area today to learn how.